{"id":5881,"date":"2013-06-06T15:36:38","date_gmt":"2013-06-06T03:36:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/morgue.isprettyawesome.com\/?p=5881"},"modified":"2013-08-23T15:04:36","modified_gmt":"2013-08-23T03:04:36","slug":"ruminator-pink-vs-blue","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/morgue.isprettyawesome.com\/?p=5881","title":{"rendered":"Ruminator: Pink vs Blue"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Yesterday turned out to be an interesting day. There was winning at basketball, which happens rarely enough these days that it&#8217;s a happy moment indeed. There was completing the serialisation of &#8220;in move&#8221;, my teenage-boys-in-the-Hutt novel, about which more soon (I need to get the ebook version prepared for release). There was getting a heat pump installed, hurrah for that. But the big thing was <a href=\"http:\/\/ruminator.co.nz\/pinkblue\/\">Pink vs Blue<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Pink vs Blue was a post I wrote over at The Ruminator. It&#8217;s about how being a dad to a little girl has given me some new avenues for thinking about the way our culture codes and scripts gender in a really limiting way. I spent a while scooping together lots of bits and pieces I&#8217;d been thinking and feeling for a while, and lined them up in what I hoped was an illuminating way. <\/p>\n<p>As usual with this sort of stuff, the writing of it is also the thinking about it &#8211; I look for turns of phrase or metaphors or rhetorical flourishes that feel like they help me understand. Like if I can just line up the words in the right way, I&#8217;ll unlock some hidden secret. Sometimes it does feel like that.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, I&#8217;m pretty proud of this post, because it&#8217;s very personal and also very general, and I tried hard to get it right. It&#8217;s taken off in a moderate sort of way, lots of shares by people I&#8217;ve never heard of. Easily the most widely circulated thing I&#8217;ve ever written (excepting that time I cut and pasted a few Wikileaks tweets and added the words &#8220;this is interesting&#8221; and it went crazy on Reddit).<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/ruminator.co.nz\/pinkblue\/\">You can find it here<\/a>. I hope you&#8217;ll have a read, and if you are so moved, do pass it on to anyone else who might be interested.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Yesterday turned out to be an interesting day. There was winning at basketball, which happens rarely enough these days that it&#8217;s a happy moment indeed. There was completing the serialisation of &#8220;in move&#8221;, my teenage-boys-in-the-Hutt novel, about which more soon (I need to get the ebook version prepared for release). There was getting a heat &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/morgue.isprettyawesome.com\/?p=5881\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Ruminator: Pink vs Blue<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[7,10,4,6],"tags":[148,75,147],"class_list":["post-5881","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blogging","category-everything-political","category-mediawatch","category-self-ish","tag-gender","tag-parenting","tag-ruminator"],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p8D9ZE-1wR","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/morgue.isprettyawesome.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5881","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/morgue.isprettyawesome.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/morgue.isprettyawesome.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/morgue.isprettyawesome.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/morgue.isprettyawesome.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5881"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/morgue.isprettyawesome.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5881\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5882,"href":"https:\/\/morgue.isprettyawesome.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5881\/revisions\/5882"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/morgue.isprettyawesome.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5881"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/morgue.isprettyawesome.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5881"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/morgue.isprettyawesome.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5881"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}